1. "What can we do to make things beter now?" Make sure you put the word NOW in there.... By doing that, it shows you want to fix this now.
2. "Help me understand where you're coming from. This is where I get tripped up."
3. "You're so handsome, even when you argue." This kind of breaks the tension.
4. "I say we stop fighting, now."
5. I thik we need coffee for this conversation."